It's Unfortunate

Recently, I had an experience that truly hasn’t happened that often during the last two years.  While filling up with gas, the guy next to me started up a conversation.  Since the start of the pandemic, I feel as if we all just stayed in our little bubble and didn’t converse with others as often. Yet here we were having a friendly chat and enjoying each other’s company while we waited for our tanks to fill.  As is often the case, there was the question about what I did.  I explained that I was the Executive Director of Family Services of Davidson County. 

Through the years I have gotten the same next question, “What do you all do?”.  I took the time to give a brief explanation that included providing crisis and counseling services to those impacted by traumatic events, such as sexual assault and domestic violence.  I also spoke of our Hattie Lee Burgess House and providing services for those escaping violence.

The next statement really wasn’t surprising, nor did I think about my response until a couple miles up the road.  He said, “That’s unfortunate that you have to provide these services.”  I told him I agreed how unfortunate it was.

He then said, “God Bless you for providing these services.” I said thank you and we were off to fulfill our responsibilities for that day.  But I began to think about my response to him as I traveled to the office. 

Although we all agree of the unfortunate circumstances of those seeking our services.  However, I began to think about how fortunate it was to have our services available to those who were building back hope and finding healing.

I thought about the strength of those we serve and their abilities to overcome.  I then began to consider that Family Services of Davidson County was marking our 25th anniversary and how fortunate that we are available to those seeking our help. 

I then thought of how we ensure our services last another 25 years to assist those who need the space to again find their strength and heal.  I want to make certain Family Services of Davidson County is a viable resource for many years to come.

Toward this goal of sustainability, we have launched the 25 for 25 campaign.  This campaign is looking to 25 individuals, groups, churches, or businesses to partner with us with a gift of $2500.  These monies are the building block to ensure those who are suffering have the fortunate programming that will provide them the chance to build hope and find healing.

We thank you for your support of Family Services of Davidson County and your belief in our mission of Building Hope…Healing Lives.

Blessings,

Tim Tilley, Executive Director